Many people are far too honest on the first few dates by telling way too much about themselves too early. Leave something for the imagination & get to know someone slowly. Revealing all your secrets or desires too early can scare off a potential partner. Do not ask the questions you don't really want to hear the truth about. Susan McCord @ http://www.beavetalk.com Andrea Wesley @ http://musictomysoul-tulip.blogspot.com @7575047 You are so right about "fear of the unknown" !!!& This is a huge reason people go in with so many questions & rules when first meeting someone. Everyone has been hurt at one point in their life & it is not a nice feeling to have to go through. It is interesting to hear you call being single "a comfort zone" as I always felt that myself. But I also find many people are not comfortable being single & are more at peace with themselves when they are attached. Thx for your wisdom xo~
twobeavers 1 second ago
The fear of the unknown CAN BE STRONG. However, it depends on who you ask.
7575047 8 hours ago
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I think many men & women have super unrealistic agendas in dating. Until they let the agendas go it can be disappointing. I personally am learning 2 do this myself-it's tough but I believe it's the best path. As far as people pulling back, once the other has said "ok, let's go," possibly, there may B an element of now the time for talking is over & it's time 2 move fwd. The fear of having 2 make that decision to leave one's comfort zone of being single is SO STRONG it could make them pull back.
7575047 8 hours ago
IMO, regarding disclosure on a date, I don't believe we have to volunteer a full disclosure of our life & what we want/don't want, etc.. Be honest always but share what's necessary. I just try to keep it flowing, entertaining & engaging all the while showing interest -if I am interested. Be yourself & hopefully they will be too & it will flow & be comfortable. It IS hard to find like minds/souls that approach dating like this but we're out there. It's just a matter of getting us together. :)
7575047 9 hours ago