Friday, November 30, 2018

Are you With Your Partner For the Right Reasons?



Today’s weekly discussion: Are you With Your Partner For the Right Reasons?
Are you sacrificing who you are to be in your relationship?


Is your partner calling all the shots and controlling what goes on between you as a couple? Are you afraid to say anything in case it leads to the end of your partnership?

Never shortchange yourself in life.

If you find that you are continually compromising yourself in any relationship, which includes family and friends, you need to have a long hard talk with yourself. You shouldn’t be OK taking a “back seat” to anything in your life.

You are just as important as any one of those people you have allowed into your world.

Life is a long learning curve and it can take time to build your confidence levels. The trick is to learn how to have self-worth as early as possible by not allowing destructive relationships to continue.

It is not easy to change who you are but with each step you take to better yourself, the easier it is to see and reach “the path to least resistance.” Why take the difficult route when there are so many tools available to help you live your best life?

Relationships are not always easy but they shouldn’t be continually taking a toll on your heart and self-esteem.

When someone you love doesn’t make you a priority it is a big red flag that shouldn’t be ignored. You may be invested in the relationship but if your partner isn’t equally invested, there will always be signs. Sweeping them under the rug hoping things will eventually improve is actually more damaging than if you confronted them with your feelings.

If they were to walk away from you it is only because you weren’t meant to be with them. No one wants to be rejected but by staying in this type of scenario you are already being rejected anyway. Do you get what I am talking about? They are only giving you a piece of themselves and are not fully committed to you.

Something brought you here to read this post so it might be time to ask yourself why you are in a one-sided relationship situation? Are you with them for the right reasons?

What’s in it for you and what are you really getting out of this relationship?

  1. Are you hoping they will come to their senses and eventually feel the same way as you do?
  2. Has this been a pattern in many of your relationships?
  3. Do you honestly feel respected by your partner?
  4. Have you had to defend yourself to your loved ones about how your partner is treating you?
  5. Do you feel sad a lot of the time because you don’t always feel loved by them?
  6. Are you constantly burying your feelings so your partner doesn’t feel challenged all the time?
  7. Are you reading a lot of articles on this subject and trying to convince yourself you are with the right person?
I cannot stress it enough how important it is to be in a reciprocated love relationship. It is never OK to be #2 due to someone else’s needs. Watch the video above to hear more about this subject and what you can do about it.

Please leave your comments below! I will always take time to answer you back. ❤

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Wednesday, October 10, 2018

Are You OK Being in a Part Time Relationship?



Are you OK Being in a part-time relationship or do things feel very unbalanced? Would like to see them more but you're afraid to say anything for fear of scaring them off?

You have every right to know where you stand with your partner so don't be the last to know that they only want a casual scenario with you.

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Wednesday, August 29, 2018

Not all Men Want to Date Younger Women



Sassy Sybersue is getting frustrated with how many men and women label each other and sabotage their chances of finding love! Not all men want younger women ladies and not all women are gold diggers chasing after a guys wallet. There are so many single people out there who are really great!

Stop being negative and change up your mindset!

Give people a chance without using the same rehearsed lines about how there's no one out there for you! It's time for a dating attitude change. #datingadvice #adviceshow #relationshipadvice


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Thursday, July 26, 2018

Why is My Teenage Daughter So Disrespectful to Me Since Her Dad & I Sepa...



Today I added another another video to my Dear Sybersue Youtube channel for single parents. As a single mom for many years I know how difficult things can be when dealing with a teenager and a pending divorce. Today's video: Why is My Teenage Daughter So Disrespectful to Me Since Her Dad & I separated, is a topic that many people can relate to!

Please watch this video above to see how you can handle this scenario as a single parent with a different perspective.

I Love to hear from both men and women her on my website & will always take time to answer you back. Please leave your comments below!

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Wednesday, July 18, 2018

Why Cant I be Alone and Need Constant Validation?



Dear Sybersue is an Informative No BS dating relationship coach and advice columnist for millennials & gen-exers. Today's weekly upload is titled: Why cant I be alone and need constant validation?

Are you jumping from one person to the next without taking time out from dating or being in a relationship? Do you feel alone sometimes even when you are in a partnership? What is missing in your life and why don't you feel the happiness that others seem to have?

Watch the video above to see how you can change this pattern in your life.

Sybersue Loves to hear from both men and women & will always take time to answer you back. Please leave your comments below!

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Wednesday, June 13, 2018

Are There Rules on Texting A Guy After Our 1st Date ?



In Today's video: Are There Rules on Texting A Guy After Our 1st Date? is a discussion that needs to be heard!

Ladies stop being too aggressive too soon with someone you have just met! Sending too many texts or provocative photos is not good! Do you want to gain his respect or push him away? Being too available comes across to needy and it a big turnoff to most men.

Don't play games but leave a little mystery.

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Wednesday, April 11, 2018

Why Does My Partner Give Me The Silent Treatment After We Argue?



In This video Dear Sybersue discusses the topic: Why Does My Partner Give Me The Silent Treatment After We Argue? Is this any way to have a relationship where you are always having to walk on eggshells because your partner doesn't know how to communicate, and just shuts down?

Are you afraid to have an opinion for fear of them closing off to you once again?

Your partner needs to figure out why they treat you this way and you need to have some boundaries in what you allow in your life. Just because they don't like or agree something you say is no excuse to punish you with the silent treatment for days on end. It's time to get to the bottom of it or move on from the partnership.

Sybersue Loves to hear from you & will always take time to answer you back. Please leave your comments below!


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