Dating Advice: Moving Into My Boyfriends House

Is it OK to move into your partner's house or should you find a neutral place together? Do women try to change men & how they live by taking over? A couple should compromise when deciding to live together. It is difficult for the person leaving their home behind to move into someone's else's home.

Susan McCord http://www.beavertalk.com
Andrea Wesley @ http://musictomysoul-tulip.blogspot.com

Dating Advice: Be the Leading Lady not the Standin!

Why would a women ever want to be number two in a relationship? Is that all they feel they are worth? Isn't that the same as being a prostitute by getting paid (in jewelery, trips or dinners) to be with someone you are having sex with?

Susan McCord @ http://www.beavertalk.com
Andrea Wesley

Dating Advice: Should Women Pay When They Ask A Guy Out On A Date?

Men write in asking talk show hosts the big question: Why don't women pay when "they" ask men out for a date? They want equality but don't pull out their wallets very often. This is not going down well with the guys.

Susan McCord @ http://www.beavertalk.com
Andrea Wesley

Is Women's Nudity Exploited More Than Men's In The Media?

Does the media make it harder on women when it comes to nudity in the public eye? Hollywood sex tapes seems to focus on the women while the man is barely mentioned in the headlines. At a Stanley Cup Playoff game in Vancouver a young woman bared her breasts & the Press had a hay day! Her mistake cost her dearly but would it have been the same if a man had done it?

What do you think?

Susan McCord @ http://www.beavertalk.com
Andrea Wesley

Is It OK To Be Metrosexual?

Is it a good thing to be Metrosexual? Do women appreciate men who take the time to look good? Should men bling their thing? How much grooming is too much? A boyzilian is a male Brazilian but how many men do this type of manscaping?

What do you think?

Susan McCord @ http://www.beavertalk.com
Andrea Wesley @

Dating Advice: How Honest Should You Be On The First Few Dates?

Many people are far too honest on the first few dates by telling way too much about themselves too early. Leave something for the imagination & get to know someone slowly. Revealing all your secrets or desires too early can scare off a potential partner. Do not ask the questions you don't really want to hear the truth about.

Susan McCord @ http://www.beavetalk .com
Andrea Wesley @ http://musictomysoul-tulip.blogspot.com

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@7575047 You are so right about "fear of the unknown" !!!& This is a huge reason people go in with so many questions & rules when first meeting someone. Everyone has been hurt at one point in their life & it is not a nice feeling to have to go through. It is interesting to hear you call being single "a comfort zone" as I always felt that myself. But I also find many people are not comfortable being single & are more at peace with themselves when they are attached. Thx for your wisdom xo~
twobeavers 1 second ago

The fear of the unknown CAN BE STRONG. However, it depends on who you ask.
7575047 8 hours ago
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I think many men & women have super unrealistic agendas in dating. Until they let the agendas go it can be disappointing. I personally am learning 2 do this myself-it's tough but I believe it's the best path. As far as people pulling back, once the other has said "ok, let's go," possibly, there may B an element of now the time for talking is over & it's time 2 move fwd. The fear of having 2 make that decision to leave one's comfort zone of being single is SO STRONG it could make them pull back.
7575047 8 hours ago

IMO, regarding disclosure on a date, I don't believe we have to volunteer a full disclosure of our life & what we want/don't want, etc.. Be honest always but share what's necessary. I just try to keep it flowing, entertaining & engaging all the while showing interest -if I am interested. Be yourself & hopefully they will be too & it will flow & be comfortable. It IS hard to find like minds/souls that approach dating like this but we're out there. It's just a matter of getting us together. :)
7575047 9 hours ago

What's your Fantasy?

Most of us have a sexual fantasy of some sort whether we admit it or not. Sometimes all it is, is role playing or dressing up in something you perceive as sexual. It could be little red riding hood, the big bad wolf or the Playboy Bunny or Policeman. Whatever it is, add a little spice to your sex life by implementing it in the bedroom.

Here are a few of the comments from men on Youtube

ok we all for got the cowgirl! or the indian:-)- cause who dont like to be tied up! well susan i liked the librarian outfit it is a classy sexy. reveals but not coming on strong. its like a victoria's secret catalog v.s. hustler. v.s. will win every time, cause by covering up it is more intreaging and teasing
joegit1972

@joegit1972 I like that ~Good to know! xo
twobeavers

Thigh high boots, by far my biggest turn on.
666mathew

@666mathew I have to admit even as a woman I find them sexy too! ~Thanks for your input~
twobeavers

Ok, I agree . I like both.. I want sometimes subtle sometimes in your face sexual...As for he costumes you wore. I would say Maid, but the outfit was completely wrong not how i like it at all. My favorites are, schoolgirl, maid, nurse, hooker, Cheerleader, and Nun .....
MasterTiarnan

@MasterTiarnan I know that maid outfit is not very sexy but I used it for another video a few years ago. There is far better French Maid attire out there but man they are expensive! It's not cheap having too many of these fantasy outfits lol. thx for writing
twobeavers

Yeah. Not a good idea to start off all sexual for me. Its actually a turn off for me. I cant stand looking at porn mags with girls in sexual positions. Its not what I like in a woman. I need something more subtle. But in the end, sometimes I do get my moods where I like the in your face sexy. but overall, column A and B is overall really cool.

But for personal taste... Try a super heroine costume that isn't as skimpy. I like to let my imagination run.
Keiji555

White pearls, frills, lace, french tips, etc. on a girl are cues that convey SEMEN spilled and in some way press the hard-wired button guys that communicates this girl is receptive to and wants that on her. It seems like an instinctual cue that facilitates/urges ejaculation IMO.
7575047

@7575047 Holy shit you should write for me LOL
twobeavers

I think that with the french maid/schoolgirl outfit there is a subliminal invitation with the "easy access" and submissive/female cues of the skirt and its' flow against the legs and most importantly-the thighs. Combine this with heels that push the calves and butt upwards and it's like a large virtual physical finger motioning in an inviting "come hither' fashion to penetrate and dominate. That is what goes on in the hard-wired instinctual/instant arousal button for guys IMO.
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Susan McCord @ http://www.beavertalk.com
Andrea Wesley @ http://musictomysoul-tulip.blogspot.com