Friday, November 30, 2018

Are you With Your Partner For the Right Reasons?



Today’s weekly discussion: Are you With Your Partner For the Right Reasons?
Are you sacrificing who you are to be in your relationship?


Is your partner calling all the shots and controlling what goes on between you as a couple? Are you afraid to say anything in case it leads to the end of your partnership?

Never shortchange yourself in life.

If you find that you are continually compromising yourself in any relationship, which includes family and friends, you need to have a long hard talk with yourself. You shouldn’t be OK taking a “back seat” to anything in your life.

You are just as important as any one of those people you have allowed into your world.

Life is a long learning curve and it can take time to build your confidence levels. The trick is to learn how to have self-worth as early as possible by not allowing destructive relationships to continue.

It is not easy to change who you are but with each step you take to better yourself, the easier it is to see and reach “the path to least resistance.” Why take the difficult route when there are so many tools available to help you live your best life?

Relationships are not always easy but they shouldn’t be continually taking a toll on your heart and self-esteem.

When someone you love doesn’t make you a priority it is a big red flag that shouldn’t be ignored. You may be invested in the relationship but if your partner isn’t equally invested, there will always be signs. Sweeping them under the rug hoping things will eventually improve is actually more damaging than if you confronted them with your feelings.

If they were to walk away from you it is only because you weren’t meant to be with them. No one wants to be rejected but by staying in this type of scenario you are already being rejected anyway. Do you get what I am talking about? They are only giving you a piece of themselves and are not fully committed to you.

Something brought you here to read this post so it might be time to ask yourself why you are in a one-sided relationship situation? Are you with them for the right reasons?

What’s in it for you and what are you really getting out of this relationship?

  1. Are you hoping they will come to their senses and eventually feel the same way as you do?
  2. Has this been a pattern in many of your relationships?
  3. Do you honestly feel respected by your partner?
  4. Have you had to defend yourself to your loved ones about how your partner is treating you?
  5. Do you feel sad a lot of the time because you don’t always feel loved by them?
  6. Are you constantly burying your feelings so your partner doesn’t feel challenged all the time?
  7. Are you reading a lot of articles on this subject and trying to convince yourself you are with the right person?
I cannot stress it enough how important it is to be in a reciprocated love relationship. It is never OK to be #2 due to someone else’s needs. Watch the video above to hear more about this subject and what you can do about it.

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Wednesday, October 10, 2018

Are You OK Being in a Part Time Relationship?



Are you OK Being in a part-time relationship or do things feel very unbalanced? Would like to see them more but you're afraid to say anything for fear of scaring them off?

You have every right to know where you stand with your partner so don't be the last to know that they only want a casual scenario with you.

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Wednesday, August 29, 2018

Not all Men Want to Date Younger Women



Sassy Sybersue is getting frustrated with how many men and women label each other and sabotage their chances of finding love! Not all men want younger women ladies and not all women are gold diggers chasing after a guys wallet. There are so many single people out there who are really great!

Stop being negative and change up your mindset!

Give people a chance without using the same rehearsed lines about how there's no one out there for you! It's time for a dating attitude change. #datingadvice #adviceshow #relationshipadvice


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Thursday, July 26, 2018

Why is My Teenage Daughter So Disrespectful to Me Since Her Dad & I Sepa...



Today I added another another video to my Dear Sybersue Youtube channel for single parents. As a single mom for many years I know how difficult things can be when dealing with a teenager and a pending divorce. Today's video: Why is My Teenage Daughter So Disrespectful to Me Since Her Dad & I separated, is a topic that many people can relate to!

Please watch this video above to see how you can handle this scenario as a single parent with a different perspective.

I Love to hear from both men and women her on my website & will always take time to answer you back. Please leave your comments below!

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Wednesday, July 18, 2018

Why Cant I be Alone and Need Constant Validation?



Dear Sybersue is an Informative No BS dating relationship coach and advice columnist for millennials & gen-exers. Today's weekly upload is titled: Why cant I be alone and need constant validation?

Are you jumping from one person to the next without taking time out from dating or being in a relationship? Do you feel alone sometimes even when you are in a partnership? What is missing in your life and why don't you feel the happiness that others seem to have?

Watch the video above to see how you can change this pattern in your life.

Sybersue Loves to hear from both men and women & will always take time to answer you back. Please leave your comments below!

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Wednesday, June 13, 2018

Are There Rules on Texting A Guy After Our 1st Date ?



In Today's video: Are There Rules on Texting A Guy After Our 1st Date? is a discussion that needs to be heard!

Ladies stop being too aggressive too soon with someone you have just met! Sending too many texts or provocative photos is not good! Do you want to gain his respect or push him away? Being too available comes across to needy and it a big turnoff to most men.

Don't play games but leave a little mystery.

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Wednesday, April 11, 2018

Why Does My Partner Give Me The Silent Treatment After We Argue?



In This video Dear Sybersue discusses the topic: Why Does My Partner Give Me The Silent Treatment After We Argue? Is this any way to have a relationship where you are always having to walk on eggshells because your partner doesn't know how to communicate, and just shuts down?

Are you afraid to have an opinion for fear of them closing off to you once again?

Your partner needs to figure out why they treat you this way and you need to have some boundaries in what you allow in your life. Just because they don't like or agree something you say is no excuse to punish you with the silent treatment for days on end. It's time to get to the bottom of it or move on from the partnership.

Sybersue Loves to hear from you & will always take time to answer you back. Please leave your comments below!


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Wednesday, April 4, 2018

My 35 Year Old Boyfriend Parties Constantly!




Dear Sybersue answers Christian's question: My 35 Year Old Boyfriend Parties Constantly and wants to know what to do about this after spending 2 years together. She is 33 years old and is ready to start planning her future in a responsible way. She is tired of all the booze fed evenings that resemble a reality TV show!

What would you do?

Sybersue Loves to hear from you & will always take time to answer you back. Please leave your comments below!


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Wednesday, March 7, 2018

Dating Question: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex?



What do you talk about on those first few dates?

Is it OK to ask them about their last relationship and why they broke up with their EX? Dear Sybersue has received this question on her advice column numerous times!

What is the proper etiquette when trying to get to know someone?

Leave the long checklist at home and let them talk openly but pay attention to those red flags! How do they talk about their EX? Are they angry? Are they sad? Are they over them? Listen to your intuition!

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Thursday, February 22, 2018

Is Jealousy Becoming a Deal Breaker in Your Relationship?



Dating and Relationship Coach Dear Sybersue discusses the topic: Is Jealousy Becoming a Deal Breaker in Your Relationship?

Are you or your partner feeling ill at ease with each other as far as trust goes between you both? Has something shifted to make you feel insecure with how they really feel about you or how you feel about them? Are they flirting with other people more often or are they pulling back romantically from you?

Relationships go through many stages over the years and if you want it to remain in a stable and healthy place you HAVE to communicate your feelings.

Yes, even if you feel wimpy or embarrassed with what is going on in your head. Don't shut your partner out, always talk to them about everything. Most problems can be solved quickly if you open up to your partner before small things become big things! They can't read your mind.

Have you had a jealous partner or dealt with your own jealousies? How did you get past it?
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Wednesday, February 7, 2018

Are You Constantly Feeling Insecure in Your Relationship?



In this weekly video upload Vancouver's Dear Sybersue discusses: Feeling Insecure in Your Relationship.This is a very common problem with many couples in their partnerships but shouldn't be a problem long term!

We all go through stuff in our lives that can leaving us feeling less than adequate about who we are. This is something we need to share with our partner so we can help each other through those tough times and not let them fester so that it becomes an ongoing insecurity.

If your partner is trying to make you jealous, talking down to you or squashing your accomplishments you may need to re-think your relationship with them. A partnership is supposed to be a reciprocated loving and safe place, not somewhere that constantly makes you question yourself. What do you think, have you dealt with this scenario in your past?


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