Wednesday, November 22, 2017

Too Much Time With Your EX Sabotages Your Chances of Meeting A New Partner



Today in Dear Sybersue's weekly video she discusses how spending to much time with your EX can sabotage your chances of meeting a new partner.

It's wonderful that you can get along with your EX but they are your EX for a reason. If you are looking for a new relationship in the future it is not a good idea to spend most of your free time with your past partner. Think about it, how much time from your busy day do you have left over to give to someone else?

Your priorities should be about moving on in a different direction that brings you happiness. Friends with benefits with your EX is not a healthy place to put yourself; it just prolongs the breakup aftermath!

Questions for Sybersue? Download the free app and text her 24/7 at http://www.instantgo.com/dearsybersue

Susan Loves to hear from her viewers & often answers their relationship and dating questions on her show as a topic choice. Please leave your comments below.


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Tuesday, November 14, 2017

Abraham Hicks: Don’t put up with anything that doesn’t make you feel good



This video is a great reminder for all of us who are having trouble achieving our goals, finding love in our lives or just feeling happy in general. Life is stressful and very hard to deal with sometimes. Positive thinking and "believing" you deserve great things are very powerful thoughts that will bring you more of what you desire.

You are thinking,"Ya right!" "What a bunch of BS!"

How are those thoughts working for you? They're not right? That's kind of my point with this post. In order to manifest what you want, you have to reduce the negative noise in your head.

The more you think about what you don't have or people who make your life difficult, you are giving power to that vibration. The less you think about those hurtful things in your life the more time you can give to scenarios that better your existence.

Of course it isn't easy to bury hurtful comments or bad times in your life but you can replace them with new thoughts that are happier.


If you wake up sad, depressed or maybe even angry, spend the first 15 minutes of your day watching something happy on TV, YouTube or any other social media site you may be apart of. How can you not smile when you see a few funny animal videos, a laughing baby or by watching a comedy show? At least it takes you away mentally for a few minutes first thing in the morning. Do this a few times a day when you feel down and eventually your thoughts will be less tormented by what isn't working for you.

You may be skeptical about Abraham Hicks or Esther's ability to relay these messages to us all, but they do make one Hell of a lot of sense regardless. I am open to many things in life and the more I can learn, the more I grow.

I will graciously take all the teaching tools offered to me and make them work to the best of my ability.

Hope you liked this message today. Sending happy thoughts to you all. <3

Susan McCord

Wednesday, November 8, 2017

How Do You Avoid Dating Commitment Phobic People?



Dear Sybersue discusses dating issues when it comes to constantly meeting men and women who are commitment phobic!Why are they dating if they are not interested in a relationship?

Why are they wasting your time? You are not interested in a one night stand make this clear and obvious to them but you still keep meeting the wrong people who aren't sincere about having a relationship!

Watch this video to see how you can change things up with your dating life so that you can meet that special person who is looking for partnership! Please leave your comments below on how you dealt with this type of situation in your life.

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Wednesday, November 1, 2017

Relationship Question: Would You Choose Your Partner All Over Again?



Dear Sybersue is an Informative and very REAL dating and relationship advice columnist for men & women of all Ages! Today she discusses the question "would you choose your partner all over again?"

You will be surprised by the answers many couples give. What would you say when asked this question?

What do you do if the answer is no? Can you fix things in your relationship?

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Wednesday, October 25, 2017

Are You too Shy to Date? Learn How to Change This!



Is shyness sabotaging your dating life? Does it keep you from going out and being sociable?
There are ways to overcome this that can help you to meet a potential partner. Watch the video above to learn how!

Questions for Sybersue? Download the free app and text her 24/7 at http://www.instantgo.com/dearsybersue

Today's video is filmed at
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Thursday, September 28, 2017

Lindee Link - Falling



This is such a pretty song by a beautiful woman I met on Twitter. Check out her YouTube Channel.

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Wednesday, September 13, 2017

Have you Been Cheated on in Many of Your Relationships?



Dear Sybersue is an Informative and very REAL dating and relationship advice columnist for men & women of all Ages! Today she discusses the topic: "have you been cheated on in many of your relationships?" "Why does this keep happening?"

This can be a very hurtful and leave you feeling deflated and unworthy. There is something going on that makes you choose this same type of partnership, that needs to be looked into. We choose who we allow into our lives and if the pattern is disturbingly repetitive, you need to get some answers! Your self esteem plays a big part in who you end up in a relationship with. Please watch this video to find out more.

Susan loves to hear from her viewers & often answers their relationship and dating questions on her show as a topic choice. Please leave your comments below the video!

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Wednesday, September 6, 2017

Are You too Needy in Most of Your Relationships?



Canadian Talk Show Host Susan McCord (aka Dear Sybersue) discusses a big problem that many people face in relationships today. When you are dealing with insecurities or drama from your past it can play a big part in who you choose as a partner or it can sabotage potential relationships from happening.

Being needy isn't endearing to others as it comes off as manipulative or controlling and wears thin after a while. Wanting to be with someone is a totally different concept to needing to be with someone.

No one wants to feel suffocated and neither do they want to have to answer to someone 24/7! Pay attention to the type of partner you are allowing into your life as there may be a pattern that you are not aware of. If you have some deep rooted negative programming that you just can't seem to change from the past, it might be time to talk to a professional about it.

You deserve to be happy and it is never too late to make changes.

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Friday, September 1, 2017

A Whole Lot of Mojito/Latino & Date Night Fun at Baru Restaurant in Vancouver




I am very excited to be writing an article on the Baru Latino restaurant because it is my favorite place to eat and hang out in the Kitsilano hood! It has a downtown atmosphere feel to it without having to cross over the bridge to get there.

What makes this place so special? Pretty much everything! One of the main reasons to visit this highly popular spot, besides the incredible food and the ambience; is the “hands on” owners!

Rene Lafleur is one of the owners (yes, he is related to hockey legend Guy Lafleur - his dad’s second cousin!) and despite his very French name, he does not speak the language. Rene spent 12 years as a drummer with the band “Star Collector” who proudly have 4 full length albums. He is the numbers geek, wine guy and host at Baru.




Co-owner Dave Newis has been a kitsilano fixture for many years working in numerous establishments & known as a bartender extraordinaire! Dave also traveled Canada playing beach volleyball. He is the “attention to detail” Milieu expert at Baru!

Dave’s wife Zeta Newis is the Head Chef at Baru and also co-owner of Baru Rubs & Sauces with Rene’s wife Nina Lafleur! This definitely adds validity to the clichĂ©; “Those who play together stay together!”

Baru Rubs and Sauces may have only been around for 2 years, but these two entrepreneurial women already have their products in 5 whole Food stores and 8 other various stores throughout BC. Who needs the Dragons Den to promote your business when you have these two go-getters!

Baru Latino was an established name & venue when Dave & Rene decided to delve into this business. They loved the space on sight! Tired of working for someone else & spending so much time throwing their own dinner parties, they decided to look for a place to call their own!

Both owners are originally from Alberta, moved to Vancouver in 1991, met here & have been friends for 12 years. Business partners for 8 years, they are quite the characters & each offers something different and unique to the restaurant. Talk about meeting someone at “the right place at the right time” and what a great team they are!

They make it work so well and the "dinner party theme" is definitely the feel you get when you walk in the door! The atmosphere is fun and romantically contagious.

Chef Zita Newis, sous chef Mathew Wilson, cooks Tristen Jones and Kristy Averves are responsible for the amazing food reputation at Baru. The guava glazed 10 oz pork chop & ceviche are my favorites but everything on the menu is fantastic!

They encourage family style sharing and the restaurant is pleasantly affordable with the most expensive entree; Steak Chimmichurri 7oz Sirloin steak, with chimmichurri sauce, served with jalapeno potato pave and topped with a smoky corn salsa served with seasonal vegetables priced at $31.

The menu is 95% gluten free excluding the bread & chocolate lava cake! It is also nut free with the exception of a few behind the bar! (Dave’s words not mine!)

Steak Chimmichurri



Baru's Famous Pork Chop



Ceviche


The dining area at Baru seats 44-48 people with an additional 15 bar seats. It is a popular location for many functions/private parties and has been voted as a great date night hangout! It’s not uncommon for online daters to meet up here for their first rendezvous. The beautiful actress Natalie Portman was seen dining in Baru along with many other visiting and local celebrities. They love the cozy non-pretentious atmosphere!

Seasonal White Fish 

The incredible lighting and uniquely flavored mojito drinks give it a romantic flare that makes couples feel amorous! There is a happy hour available every day of the week from 5-6:30 which includes $5 red/white sangria, double mojitos for $7, red or white wine $6 for a 6oz glass ($9 for a 9oz glass) and 1516 beers for $4. This is very affordable especially for those "first date" evenings!


Raspberry Mojito

*Mention this article when making your “date night” reservation and Baru will offer you something special to help with those "first date" jitters!


Baru Latino Restaurant participates in Dine Out Vancouver every year and has many repeat customers due to how much they enjoy their first dining experience at Baru! They can’t wait to come back!

There is entertainment available on special evenings so please check out the Baru website for more information or call the restaurant anytime to find out what’s happening. (604) 222- 9171

Make your reservations soon and don’t miss out on this incredible Latino experience at 2535 Alma Street on the west side of Vancouver. There is free parking available underground behind the restaurant.

Tell them Dear Sybersue sent you!






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Tuesday, August 29, 2017

Would you Date "You?" Do You Know How You Come Across to Others?



Dear Sybersue is an Informative and very REAL dating and relationship advice talk show for men & women of all Ages! In today's video she discusses your dating life and your attitude that goes along with it.

Are you happy with how you come across to others? Do you make a great first impression or are you too rigid or are you way too picky about who you will date?

It might be time to take a good hard look in the mirror if your dating life sucks. It's never too late to make changes to be a better person but first you have to understand what needs changing.

Today Sybersue's shirt is from Brunette The Label clothing line. This is a local Vancouver business! Check out their online store! ♥

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Thursday, August 24, 2017

5 Attributes that Men Really Want in Their Partner



Canadian Talk Show Host Susan McCord (aka Dear Sybersue) gets many questions from her male viewers on her advice column and this topic "5 attributes that men want in their partner" is one of the biggest conversations of all.

Women think all men care about is sex but that isn't true for most guys. They want a loving relationship just like women do!

They are tired of being categorized and want women to know what is really important to them. Dear Sybersue promised to do this video on behalf of the numerous emails she received on the subject.

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Wednesday, July 26, 2017

Are You Constantly Being Pressured by Your Friends to be in a Relationship?



Dear Sybersue is an Informative and very REAL dating and relationship advice columnist for men & women of all Ages! Today
she discusses; "Are you Constantly being pressured by your friends to be in a relationship?"

Do people think they know what is best for you? Are they always trying to set you up with someone and you just want to be left alone? Does your family also put in their opinions about your relationship status? It might to be time to tell them to butt out and that you enjoy being single!

Has this happened to you?

Please leave your comments below.

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Wednesday, July 12, 2017

My Boyfriend is Acting Different - Does He Still Love ♥ Me?



Dear Sybersue discusses one of the most popular questions she gets on her advice column from women. How do you know if your boyfriend is really in love with you? Are his feelings sincere? Have things changed in the last year between you but you have ignored the red flags?

It is very important not to let things become complacent or boring within your relationship! Don't be be the last to know your partner could be moving on.


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Wednesday, June 14, 2017

Don't Give up on Love & Relationships



Dear Sybersue discusses how many men and women are sad, lonely or angry about the difficulties in finding a solid partnership today. Many people are giving up on ever having a loving relationship due to all the high maintenance attitudes and lengthy checklists they come across in the dating world of the Millennium. Why has this happened and how do we change things up so that we can have love in our lives? Please leave your comments below the video. What do you think is going on?

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Wednesday, May 24, 2017

Traveling With Your Partner Can Make or Break Your Relationship!



Dear Sybersue discusses traveling with your partner before you make any big relationship commitments!

It's a really big deal to compromise on any travel arrangements and have the talk before you pack those suitcases! What are your fears, boundaries or quirks that you need to discuss?

Please comment under this post to help others get through those tough first vacations together!

What tips do you have?

Susan McCord @ The Dear Sybersue Talk Show
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Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Why Hasn't my Boyfriend said I Love You after 6 months?



Dear Sybersue answers another popular question on her advice column. Niki wants to know why her boyfriend of 6 months hasn't told her he loves her yet? They are together all the time and things seem to be going great but he hasn't said those magic words she wants to hear!

Why hasn't he? Is Niki being impatient?

What do you think?

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Monday, April 10, 2017

Vancouver Women Discover Your Flawsome!


DISCOVERING YOUR "FLAWSOME" WORKSHOPS IN VANCOUVER MAY 2016

I am very happy to be one of the speakers at this women's empowerment workshop! You are beautiful just the way you are but there is always room to learn more about yourself and add a little diversity to your life. 

When we are authentic to who we truly are and are proud of who we are, things seem to flow & make a lot more sense. It's never too late to be an even better you! Sometimes our life journey takes a few twists & turns that knock us on our butt; but that only means we are meant to be on a much better path. We are supposed to move on.  đź’—sybersue


Are you asking yourself what next? If I am so wonderful, why am I not feeling happy? Perhaps you are pondering where do I want to go in the next twenty years.

Then this workshop is for You!

You will identify:

Who am I?
Who do I want to be?
What barriers am I facing?
What is my plan of action?




The workshops will lead you through the process of reconnecting with yourself while providing information and support so you can implement and integrate action plans. Live life fully and embrace your flawsome!

8 Reasons to Attend:

1. 4 accomplished speakers will share their story to motivate & inspire you on your journey
2. Three different days: Monday or Wednesday 4 week series, Saturday full day
3. Experiential work led by Janyse Hrynkow, MA CCC Psychotherapist
4. Affordable: $199.00 for the 4 week series OR $250.00 for the Saturday
5. Vancouver locations with parking & transit accessible: ROAM Gallery at City Square & Tug Boat Landing on Kent Street
6. Light refreshments included with lunch provided on Saturday
7. Time to meet and mingle with new acquaintances with a similar goal
8. A renewed sense of you and an action plan

Co-Sponsor: ah ha solutions
Co-Sponsor: ah ha solutions


Discover Our Amazing And Accomplished Speakers:

  • Linda Chu, Productivity & Professional Organizer Expert

Focused on working with corporations, entrepreneurs, and individuals, Linda assists clients to clear overflowing piles of information and possessions, streamline processes and procedures, and develop systems to get organized and stay organized.


  • Winnie Furber CCDP. Facilitator – Employment Counselor

Helping people get where they want to be as they move forward through the hardest times of their lives, including job loss, career transition and professional reconnecting to the world of work, Winnie believes life is about thriving not surviving!


  • Tetyana Golota, Mrs. BC Globe, Designer, Director SheTalks

Blessed with the “Best Brain Tumor” Tetyana feels she has been given a second chance and shares a powerful message. Your life may not be perfect, but whatever obstacles you are facing, the joy of living is paramount, so choose it.

  • Janyse Hrynkow MA, Moderator, Psychotherapist

A psychotherapist, trainer and speaker, Janyse works in the corporate and public sector. In private practice, she consults and counsels individual, families, children and groups. She has implemented many seminars and courses dealing with the dynamics of the human experience..


  • Susan McCord, Relationship Talk Show Host & Author

Susan is best known for hosting a relationship talk show for an International audience on YouTube. “The Dear Sybersue Talk Show” with over 1.5 million views. She is a guest blogger and appears on TV including CBC news, TorontoNewsTalk1010, Sexat11 RogersTV Toronto, The Love Channel, Trying to be Good RoundHouse Radio and The Lynda Steele Show CKNW.

  • Melody Ann Owen, Author, Mentor & Educator 

Leveraging all of her education and experience, Melody Ann helps bloggers, entrepreneurs and other professionals to plan, write, produce and market books increasing their success. She started an online directory, blogs and writes books to support better living.

  • Krys Pappius, Co-Active Life Coach

Twenty years in law enforcement, a significant motor vehicle incident in the line of duty jolted Krys awake in her own life. Now retired and a professional co-active life coach, she empowers people undergoing transitions in life and/or career, self-image, and grief.


  • Diane Rolston, Coach and Author

Helping high achieving women go from overwhelmed to clear and confident, Diane coaches women to push past limitations and succeed with their career, business, family, relationships, and personal achievements. Her training and books encourage women to stop being superwomen and be free.

  • Robbin Whachell, Publicist, Writer, Photojournalist

Co-founder and editor of one of The Bahamas’ leading news sites, TheBahamasWeekly.com, Robin is a successful entrepreneur, a pioneer in online marketing, a recognized media personality and a community builder. She is known for her networking, mentoring and social media skills.

  • Marilyn Wilson, Author, Editor, Social Media Marketer

Author of “Life Outside the Box” with more books underway, Marilyn specializes in interviewing and telling people’s stories. Recognized for her passion and dedication to the fashion community, she received the 2017 Vancouver Fashion Week Ambassador Award.

  • Sandra Yuen MacKay, Artist, Author, Public Speaker

A visual artist, Sandra also published “My Schizophrenic Life: The Road to Recovery from Mental Illness” and “Chop Shtick“. She is an advocate and spokesperson on mental health issues and appears in “Psychopia” a short documentary directed by Ali Virk about her journey of recovery.

Please go to Original Post to Register:  https://atfortyfive.com/finding-flawsome-workshops/

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Sunday, March 26, 2017

I Married a Mountain Man but I am a City Girl!



Dear Sybersue does something a little out of the box today and talks about her own relationship.

How do you make a partnership work when you both enjoy different activities? Opposites attract but seldom stay together. So can you compromise and make it work as a couple?

Embrace the differences that you both bring to the relationship! Who knows you may try something new and enjoy it!

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Sunday, March 19, 2017

How Do I Avoid Running into Ex Boyfriend?



Dear Sybersue answers a viewers question about how to avoid running into her Ex on a regular basis! She is really trying to move on from him but seeing her ex so often makes it very difficult.

It keeps playing with her emotions and brings up unanswered questions that she thought she was getting past. It is like stripping off the band-aid too soon and re-opening the scar! Even at times when she thinks she is really over him and is feeling good about things, seeing him breaks her heart all over again.

What should she do? Has this happened to you?

Please leave your comments to help others get through a difficult break up.


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Sunday, March 5, 2017

Vancouver Meetup Suppot Group For Women Dealing With a Divorce or Breakup



Ladies I started a Meetup Group about 9 months ago in Vancouver which you may be interested in if you are single and trying to get over a past relationship. It is open to women of all ages!


WOMEN -Vancouver (Support Group for Singles/Divorced/Ge­tting over a Breakup)


The Second Tuesday of Every Month 2017 (With the exception of September where it will be one week earlier on Sept 5th)

6:30 PM
Bar One
1759 West Broadway (Burrard), Kitsilano Vancouver, BC


Ladies are you going through a separation, bad breakup or a divorce? Are you having a hard time getting over your previous relationship? Are you stuck in a pattern that isn't working?

Regardless of which scenario you are dealing with, this is one of the most difficult times that you will live in your life. Heartbreak is painful and the grieving period can last a long while without any support to help you through it.

There are so many emotions that take over and impede us from moving on; plus we tend to stop ourselves from sharing how we really feel with others, which keeps us in our head blaming ourselves.

This women's meetup group is set up to create a safe, nonjudgmental space to share with each other and offers an opportunity to speak to a professional who works in solving these types of issues every day.

At every event, we’ll hold an informal & fun get-together where we’ll share our top tips to release your emotions, as well as ways to deal with the initial wave of loneliness. It is an important part of healing to feel safe, validated and have the freedom to discuss your personal thoughts.

This is a place for you to safely interact among others who understand what you are going through because they may be dealing with the same experience. You are not alone.

Who is the Group Organizer:


Susan McCord (Known to many as Dear Sybersue) who has over 19,000 followers on her blog, 13,800 Facebook followers and over 1.6 million views on her YouTube Talk Show has devoted her career to helping others find happiness. Everyone deserves love in their life! Over the past decade she has established a stellar reputation as a sought-after relationship expert, advice columnist, published author, blogger & life coach.

Susan has been there done that and has so many t-shirts she could open a store! She is here to share her story and life's trials and tribulations with anyone who needs her wisdom. She makes you think! You can learn more about her at sybersue.com and facebook.com/DearSybersue

We invite you to bring your questions so that we’re able to answer anything you want to talk about during the meetup.

Please RSVP within the group here on the Meetup site so we know how many women will be joining us and out of respect for my time and our chosen venue so they have the correct reservation numbers.

***When you RSVP, PLEASE show up and don't bail at the last minute as we do have a numbers limit at these meetups. Please order something at the restaurant even if it is just a drink as they are giving us their time & space for those two hours.***

Please click on this link to go directly to the Meetup Group to join and RSVP!


Thank you very much and I look forward to meeting you!

Susan :)


How do I find A Boyfriend in Vancouver? Original question on Quora


This is the big question in Vancouver! Brad is so right that you have to be friendly and talk to people all the time, and not just guys you might be interested in dating. The happier you appear and the more receptive you are to meeting new people, the more you will be noticed.

Vancouver is a transient place and can feel very isolating at times, but you can break through with a little effort. I agree with John that meetup groups in Vancouver are a great place to socialize. I belong to a few myself and also run my own group as well.

The big trick is not to fall into the trap that many men & women do in this city by complaining how hard it is to meet someone here. If everyone changed up their attitude and said hi to one another, things would turn around in the dating scene. Keep smiling and don’t get frustrated. Believe in love and you will find it. <3 Susan McCord The Dear Sybersue Talk Show

Thursday, February 23, 2017

My Ex has Moved on with Someone else -Why do I still miss them?



Today Sybersue discusses why some men and women still have feelings for an EX that has already moved on without them. Why is it even harder to get over them after they replace you with a new partner?

You were doing OK but now it seems worse because they are sharing their life without you in it! Are you still really in love with them or is it your tarnished ego that's taking a beating?

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