Monday, January 30, 2012
How do we keep our sex life alive in our relationship?
Why do we become so complacent sexually? Do people not understand how important it is to keep intimacy a priority at home? If you want to keep your partner from cheating, keep them happy! This goes for both sexes.
Dating & Relationship Advice ~ Fifty Sex Tips For Men & Women
Regardless of whether you are in a relationship or just dating at the moment, these tips are something to implement into your sex-life. Many of us forget about the little things that we loved about each other when we first met & become complacent within our relationships. This is not something to be taken lightly and nurturing the love between you & your partner should be a top priority on a daily basis.
Taking each other for granted is one of the top reasons for the divorce statistics today. You chose each other for a reason ~ don’t forget why. Keep it fresh & alive with new memories. You wouldn’t stop loving your children so put in the same energies with loving your partner.
#1 reason with many women is Romance. If a man knows how to be romantic he will be able to lure his lady sexually without persistence.
#1 For most men is getting regular sex
Don’t ignore men’s nipples
Keep it fresh and alive for both sexes ~ don’t be predictable!
Men like women who explore & take initiative sexually
Women like massage/candles/ soft words and a man who caresses them. (They do not like to be to be groped or men who are constantly aggressive!)
Men love lingerie and a woman who enjoys wearing it.
(They also like it when she decides to forego her underwear when out for the evening. There isn’t anything quite as sexy to a man when his lady is panty-less when out on a date)
Booze-less sex is better than a drunken session. The senses are more alive sober…and you actually remember you had sex!
Daytime sex is the choice for both genders. Sex after 9pm becomes a routine & never as arousing ~ everyone is tired from their busy day.
A little naughty talk in the bedroom is alluring for both sexes once you get over being shy.
Phone sex messages (if you call them at the office ensure the speaker phone is off)
Always listen to what your partner says they like during sex
Pick up on their desires in & out of the bedroom & use it to your advantage.
Hot coffee delivered in the morning guarantees is like foreplay to a woman.
The littlest gestures will increase your odds of better sex or at least getting it once in a while.
Try new positions don’t become a creature of habit in the bedroom
Wear cologne or body cream lightly & do not forget the deodorant! You may not think you need it but trust me most people do!
Learn how to read each other’s feelings so you don’t have to ask
Be aware of their body language. Know when something is not right
Ask questions! Show interest in their life
After your man gets home from work, bring him a drink or the remote control for an hour. He needs time to unwind not 50 questions.
Men: after your orgasm sex is NOT over!
Scream out once in awhile let the neighbors know you are not that boring couple after all.
Sex is not just penetration
Don’t ask someone if they would like to have sex! Be creative.
Shave! That goes for both sexes ~ Do a little landscaping
Complement your partner & make them feel good about themselves, especially their bodies (for women!)
Don’t wear flannel pajamas, curlers or eye shades to bed.
Shave her legs or paint her toenails once in awhile ~ wax his unibrow or give him a foot massage.
Wash his hair or other pampering things Mom used to do
Dress sexy for them, even at home
Dental hygiene; floss, whiten and freshen breath with scope! Yellow teeth get worse with age, be preventative before it happens.
Get rid of granny panties & tighty whities
Tell each other what you like & want in bed. Guide each other with your hands. Don’t just lie there like a starfish.
Men love women who actually enjoy oral sex and don’t just do it because it is expected. The same goes with oral sex for women. (It makes us more comfortable & relaxed when our man enjoys it.)
Think ahead romantically for special occasions
Confidence is a turn on
Take your time during sex; don’t be in a rush for the finish line
Find their erogenous zones and work them, especially if you want them to get in the mood
Don’t assume that one orgasm is all they are good for. (That goes for men too, ladies)
Have sex outside the bedroom
Make out on the couch, elevator or the car like a teenager if you have been together for a while.
Tell them often that you love them & want them. Don’t assume they know.
Be respectful of each other’s time. Late for a date probably means you won’t get laid that night!
Valentine’s Day is a reminder for romance but make other days special for no reason other than you care.
Don’t be afraid to be a mush ball occasionally. It makes the other person feel special.
Have a naughty “pet name” for them in the privacy of your bedroom.
Read or watch something sexy together to spice things up if you feel like your sex life is becoming repetitive.
Host Susan McCord @ http://www.yinyangtalk.com
Co-host Andrea Wesley @ http://musictomysoul-tulip.blogspot.com